One of my favorites: Day after Thanksgiving, getting ready for work (Black Friday) while J dozes in bed. Choose a typical outfit, pencil skirt and blouse. Scan lingerie drawer, choose navy and black Malawi set by new designer Jenna Leigh. Take my time getting the garter skirt attached to my opaque Wolford stay-ups. Watch sleepy man get less sleepy. Smile when he unexpectedly picks me up after work.